Sexting and Online Relationships

Sexting and online relationships are understandably a core concern for parents about letting their children spend time online. By understanding these issues, you can support your child in navigating the digital world safely.

What is Sexting?

  • Sexting involves exchanging or sharing explicit images or messages of a sexual nature.
  • It can occur between romantic partners, someone you like, or even in the form of sharing photos with friends without permission.
  • Research by Plymouth University has shown that a significant percentage of 14-16 year-olds have engaged in sexting.
  • Shockingly, a considerable number of young people do not perceive anything wrong with sending or receiving explicit images.

Potential Concerns

  • Mistakes made during teenage years can now be recorded and shared instantly through social media.
  • After a relationship ends, ex-partners sometimes use explicit images as a means of revenge.
  • It is essential to be aware that taking, holding, or sharing indecent images of a minor can be illegal.
  • As a parent, if such images are stored on a family computer, you may also face legal implications.
  • Sharing these images can put young people at risk of exploitation by sex offenders who may use them for blackmail.

What Can You Do?

  • Initiate open conversations with your children about the permanence and potential consequences of sharing explicit images online.
  • Encourage them to think before posting anything online, reminding them that once it's out there, it's difficult to control its distribution.
  • Teach your child about respecting others' privacy and the importance of not sharing explicit images of others.
  • Remember that it's normal for teenagers to make unwise decisions and have lapses in judgment.
  • Emphasise the importance of being cautious and responsible while engaging in any online relationships.

This page was developed using the additional resources: 

Wise Kids 
Thinkuknow 
NSPCC